Friday 20 May 2011

How to Tell if a Girl Likes you at school

There are various ways to Tell if a Girl Likes You. However, if you're in high school or college, there are certain ways to go about it. This is a comprehensive guide into figuring out whether or not the girl that you fancy feels the same way. Take a look:


  • Just be yourself. Be confident and keep your head up and look her into her eyes. If you are confident you can make the first move.

  • Ask her about herself. Girls- and guys- love to talk about themselves, typically. Ask her questions and get to know her. If she doesn't know you or doesn't seem interested in sharing, though, back off. You don't want to come off creepy.

  • Ask her a simple question. "Can I sit?" If she replies fast, it means she's not interested, because she wants you to leave, or she is shy and nervous. If she doesn't reply quickly, it means that she wants you to stick around longer, because she likes you. Ask her anything, and if it's a quick reply, she's not interested(be careful! she may answer quick and still like you so don't automatically think she doesn't like you), or she might just be shy, if its a slow reply for you, it means she is interested, and wants you to hang around longer and is comfortable with you. If she likes you she'll want to talk to you more than any other person...unless she's playing hard to get. Also, if she smiles while she's talking, or says not yes not no answers, that means she is nervous of how you will judge her.

  • She'll start random conversations with you. If she likes you, especially if you don't talk with her too much, she will attempt to talk to you and start very small conversations. If she has a question, take note if she goes out of her way to ask you instead of anyone else.

  • Be yourself. If she stretches frequently, this may be a sign that she is nervous, or feels the need to move because you're around. But don't get confused, because she might just need to stretch. If she does it more often when she's around you, she may be trying to get your attention.

  • If she walks by you and doesn't look at you or acknowledge you it's because she wants you to think she isn't interested. Call out her name and say "hi". She will probably just smile because she is nervous.

  • Does she pay attention to you? When she talks to you, does she say your name a lot? If so, it means that she wants you to notice that she likes you.

  • Say something random to her, anything and blurt it at her and keep doing so until she notices. Chances are, if she has even a trace amount of feelings for you, she'll smile and try to stretch the conversation. If she just gives you a dirty look and turns away, it's okay, just go to the next step.

  • Be sure to be nice to her. Also make sure that you do not make her think you dislike her at all! Be polite and gentlemen like.
  • If her friends look at her and then you, or whenever you are talking to her, her friends give looks at you and raise their eyebrows, this is also a good sign, and if somebody says she likes you, chances are she told them because she was hoping you would find out. Don't worry if her friends don't act different around you, she may not have told them. 
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  • If you sit diagonal from her in class, her knees or shoulders will be pointed towards you. Or if you sit across from her, she will be angled in towards you. This means she likes you and wants to get closer to you.
  • If you are sitting beside her and she has her legs crossed over and her crossed over leg is towards you this may mean that she is comfortable in your company and likes to talk to you.
  • If your sitting behind her, she will lean back on her chair, and try to get your attention (i.e copying your habits) and will look for ways to turn around and look at you (i.e passing an asignment back, she'll turn around and look at you
  • Another sign that you can tell if a girl likes you is if she smiles every time you come and talk to her.
  • Ask her out and see what she says. Get it out of the way! If she likes you, it will save a lot of running around after her.
  • If you like her, give her hint like on Myspace or Facebook, say "I'm always thinking of her." and if she asks you "Who do you like?" tell her that "It's her." or you can say that her name starts with a (use the letter her name starts with) and get her to think a little before you tell her, this is a really good flirting method. But only do this to a point, because most girls like guys to come straight out with it.
  • Most chat servers have "Invisible" functions, so if the girl is online, chat with her a bit, then tell her you have to go, using the Invisible function. If she logs off or uses the Invisible function, then that is a big hint that she likes you.
  • Notice her movements- if she is playing with her bangs, tugging on her hair, playing with her hair, or adjusting her clothes when she is talking to you, she probably likes you. Girls seem to get nervous around the guy they like and if she can't look you in the eye, it's a sign of something good. It just means that she really likes you and wants to look good for you- or she's very nervous around you.
  • Pay attention to whether she changes her posture when you enter the class. This is a definite sign.
  • Try and get her email and then make another email that has nothing to do with your name and send her emails saying that you like her but don't tell her who you are... or ask her if she likes you but don't tell her you're the person who's asking. Don't do it too much. She might start to think someone is stalking her and you don't want that.
  • Here's a great hint if she likes you. When your talking to her (before hand) have your friend walk up and say "Hi". If she says "Hi" and turns back to you, she either want's your attention or wants him to leave so she can continue.
  • Notice when you tease her. If she has a hard time thinking of a comeback she probably likes you but doesn't want to go any further to where she thinks you don't like her so be careful!
  • Don't talk to her best friend obsessively, as this could hint that maybe you like her best friend and that is not a good sign!
  • When you're in the hallway, try to walk a couple of steps in front of her. If she likes you, she'll walk faster to catch up with you. On the other hand, if she's walking in front of you, and she's walking really slowly, it's because she wants you to speed up to walk next to her.
  • Notice when she sits by you in class. If she tries hard to act funny around you, then there might definitely be something there.
  • Get up a few times in class. See if she follows in your direction. If she does, don't do this too many times. Otherwise she may notice what you are doing.
  • If she looks at you and doesn't say anything, then she is waiting for you to say something to start the conversation or give a simple sign to let her know that you notice her, like a wave and smile. If she does the same back, she probably likes you.
  • If you and her both have myspace/facebook, and she starts chatting with you within five minutes of your arrival online, and it happens a few times, this is a good sign. It means that she is watching the chat list and waiting for you to come online. However, if she doesn't do this every time, don't worry; she is probably worried about bugging you out or appearing pushy.
  • If you have known her for a long time, then if she likes you, she will start to change her behavior, unconsciously or consciously. She may become a 'better' person, or start copying some things that you do as an attempt to impress you. This is also a good way of finding out roughly how long she has liked you.
  • If you are friends and she goes to you with all her problems, it shows she trusts you and wants you to be part of her life. Take up those problems, and try to help her solve them. Similarly, if you go to her for your problems, and she shows an obsessive 'mother-hen' concern, and genuinely tries to fix every problem, she either likes you or you are VERY good friends.
  • If you play an online game and she is your friend on the game, she might start sending you a lot of presents. This may or may not mean that she likes you. A good way to check would be either to make duplicate accounts with false names and add her, saying will you add me for the game, or ask a mate to add her in the game. If she sends you way more presents than she sends to your mate / your duplicate account, she probably likes you.
  • If you are chatting, where there is a pause, say something like 'luv u', and see how long it takes for her to reply. If she replies immediately with '<3 you back' or something like that, she probably thinks you mean it in terms of friendship and not love love. If she replies after a long pause, it means she is unsure about her feelings, and she maybe likes you, so she is taking some time to sort herself out. If you try this, and the next day in school, she acts shyer than usual or maybe happier than usual, this might show she is interested, and you have caught her attention.
  • If you sit near her but not VERY near to her in a free session, talk a tiny bit louder than usual. She may appear to be reading a book, but if she is not turning the pages and if her head is turned slightly towards you, she may be trying to listen to what you are saying. Say something funny, and if she smiles slightly or chuckles, it is almost 100 percent sure that she is listening to you, and therefore likes you, or at least is interested in you. Similarly, if she has a text book open and is 'writing' but she doesn't seem to be aware of what she is writing, she may be listening to you. (This is quite difficult to spot)
  • If you make her laugh and she puts her head on your shoulder and puts her hand over yours there is a good chance she likes you.
  • If she is slouching forward with her head in her arms, or her hair is concealing her face, pay attention to which way her chair angles, and which way her face is pointing. She may be trying to sneak peeks at you.
  • If you are in lunch and she stares at you from time to time maybe smiling from here to there, she is probably into you. Or if one of your friends are also friends with her, and you walk by to talk to him/her she might look at you and smile or she will look at him/her with an angry look.
  • Check to see if she's flirting. Does she touch or play with your hair? If you're sitting next to her, is her knee touching yours? Does she smile at you a lot? Does she laugh all the time? Do you catch her looking at you? These are some pretty obvious flirts.
  • Note! If a girl has liked you for a long time, they may not do these things anymore. They will probably still look at you from time, but they will be more discreet. They will become better at concealing their feelings, and liking you will be an accepted part of their lives. So if she does not openly declare her love for you, that does NOT mean that she is not interested. Dig deeper!
  • If you like her but not sure she likes you have one of her best friends to ask her and ask them what she said if its you then go for it ask her out!!
  • Tease her a little, but not too much. Also, if you know her favorite animal, then say something about it and then smile at her.
  • Get to know her very good then ask her out but don't say "do you like me " don't say that then she won't like you anymore because you will freak her out. when you go out complement her like "I like your eyes" then you go out for 1 year tell her "we'll be together forever (if you mean it girls love that and they will love you more.)

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